All about the Influence Skill 'Dealing with resistance'

Resistance is a normal part of communication. In this skill, you’ll learn how to spot it early and respond in a calm and helpful way. This makes it easier to keep the conversation going, solve problems together, and build better working relationships.

The challenge with Dealing with resistance

People resist change, feedback, or new ideas – sometimes subtly, sometimes loudly. This can feel frustrating and slow down progress.

What is Dealing with resistance?

It’s the ability to identify, understand, and engage with resistance rather than push through or ignore it. It involves empathy, patience, and flexibility.

Why is Dealing with resistance important?

Resistance often signals valid concerns. Addressing it effectively builds trust, reveals new insights, and increases commitment to change or decisions.

Developing the skill of Dealing with resistance

  1. Recognize Resistance: Watch for hesitation, silence, or pushback.
  2. Stay Curious: Ask why someone is resisting – don’t assume.
  3. Validate Concerns: Acknowledge feelings and viewpoints.
  4. Slow Down: Don’t rush to convince – listen first.
  5. Offer Involvement: Engage the person in creating the solution.
  6. Stay Open: Be willing to adapt your own ideas.

How The Influence Company can help

In our training sessions, dealing with resistance is an important topic. You’ll learn how to recognize signs of resistance and respond in a calm and constructive way. This helps you keep conversations moving forward, reduce tension, and build stronger, more cooperative relationships.